My Grandma Lyman passed away 6 months ago, and it was known to almost everybody in her family and ward that she was the biggest supporter of driving 5th East. "You can always get anywhere on 5th East," she would say. The speed limit was slower, granted, but it was never congested, very quiet and kind of quaint.
There's only one time I can actually remember witnessing Grandma's love of 5th East in person. My grandparents, mother and I were driving from their home in Sugarhouse to the Conference Center for a concert, with my Grandpa in the drivers seat, and Grandma in the "backseat driver's" seat. Now, Grandma and Grandpa were like Earl and Opal Pickles (of the classic comic), and this especially came out while they were driving. My grandpa was taking his own way down there, and Grandma was opening her mouth every several seconds giving him "suggestions" or outright orders on which way to go. In those front seats, they were classic curmudgeons, battling it out. My mother and I couldn't keep the giggles in from the back seats, no matter how much we didn't want them to think we were disrespecting them. It all came to a head and mom and I lost it in the back seats. It's one little moment in life that has kept us laughing, and kept my Grandparents alive in our hearts.
Since their death, I have thought of them every time I am driving on 5th East. Normally I would always take 7th East because it's a lot faster. Now I take 5th East whenever I can, and always drive it on my way home from work. I roll the windows down, soak up the sun, keep the radio off, and I think of her. I talk to her. It's my daily communion with my Grandma.
I love your post Robyn. Elder Scott reminded us in General Conference last month of a statement made by Pres. Joseph Fielding Smith. He said, “I believe we move and have our being in the presence of heavenly messengers and of heavenly beings. We are not separate from them. … We are closely related to our kindred, to our ancestors … who have preceded us into the spirit world. We can not forget them; we do not cease to love them; we always hold them in our hearts, in memory, and thus we are associated and united to them by ties that we can not break. … If this is the case with us in our finite condition, surrounded by our mortal weaknesses, … how much more certain it is … to believe that those who have been faithful, who have gone beyond … can see us better than we can see them; that they know us better than we know them. … We live in their presence, they see us, they are solicitous for our welfare, they love us now more than ever. For now they see the dangers that beset us; … their love for us and their desire for our well being must be greater than that which we feel for ourselves.” Grandma drove 5th East not only because it was quiet, but because it was "safe". So I don't doubt that she's right by your side when your cruisin' down that street, but it's sure going to test her mettle when you hit the freeway!
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